Posts in Marriage Counseling
Embracing the Paradox: Being Both a Burden and a Joy

To accept that you are both a burden and a joy is to embrace the fullness of who you are in Christ. It means acknowledging your need for others, while also celebrating the ways you bring light and love into the world. In our weaknesses, we are met with God’s grace, and in our joys, we reflect His goodness.

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Navigating Conflict: 15 Phrases to Avoid When Arguing with Your Spouse

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, including marriage. However, how you handle disagreements can make all the difference in the health and longevity of your relationships. By avoiding these 15 phrases and adopting healthier communication strategies, couples can navigate conflicts with greater understanding, empathy, and respect.

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35 Essential Questions for Christians to Ask Before Getting Married

Before saying “I do,” it’s essential for couples to ask important questions and have open and honest conversations about their relationship, faith, values, and future together. By addressing these questions thoughtfully and prayerfully, couples can ensure they are spiritually, emotionally, and practically ready for marriage.

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The Art of Setting Boundaries: The Do's and Don'ts of Establishing Healthy Limits

Setting boundaries is not about building walls or isolating ourselves from others, but rather about establishing healthy parameters that promote mutual respect, emotional well-being, and spiritual growth. In this comprehensive guide, we'll delve into the dos and don'ts of setting boundaries, equipping you with practical strategies to cultivate healthier and more fulfilling relationships in your life.

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Understanding Attachment Styles for Christian Couples: Nurturing Secure and Loving Relationships Through Faith

Attachment theory provides insights into how individuals form emotional bonds and relate to their partners based on early experiences with caregivers. In this blog post, we’ll explore the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant—and how Christian couples can navigate their relationships with faith and spiritual principles.

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Growing in Empathy: 5 Practical Tips for Christians

As followers of Christ, we are called to walk alongside others, bearing their burdens and sharing in their joys and sorrows. Yet, empathy is a skill that requires cultivation and practice. By embracing empathy, we can deepen our relationships, foster unity within the body of Christ, and reflect the love of Jesus to a hurting world. As Christian counselors, through this blog post, we will delve into practical tips for Christians to empathize better with those around them.

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